Dear Oakwood Community,
I hope that over the past several weeks you have had an opportunity to spend quality time with your family while also carving out space for your own rest and reflection. Personally, I was so grateful to have had some downtime to do those things that help inspire and rejuvenate. My family and I were able to travel back east to visit family and friends while also getting some early college visits under our belt with my rising Junior, Mia (8 colleges in 3 days… I’m happy to share our secret for efficient college touring). Besides taking time to exercise and be outside, my favorite activity that I’ve been able to rekindle is my love for reading.
I had a chance to read several books from all different genres, most notably some classic novels including The Great Gatsby by F. Scott Fitzgerald and Homegoing by Yaa Gyasi. I mention this because most of my readerly life, at least during the school year, is so focused on non-fiction and technical writing that I need summertime opportunities to integrate the art of fiction into my learning. I find that creative writing brings awareness, meaning, and understanding to critical aspects of our lives that are both unique and universal.
With that said, I want to highlight another book I have started to read that has provided much food for thought that would resonate for all parents and guardians. Julie Lythcott-Haims, the former Dean of Freshmen at Stanford, just came out with her new book, Your Turn: How to Be an Adult. While the messages in the book are certainly geared towards helping young people identify the milestones and strategies that lead to successful “adulting”, I found the principles highlighted throughout the book to be relevant reminders to those of us who have been adults for several decades. This is a great read for everyone. On that note, we are in the process of coordinating with Ms. Lythcott-Haims to present to our community in the spring of this school year. I hope that this early introduction provides folks with an opportunity to familiarize themselves with her work.
For the last few years, we have identified a theme for the school year to inspire and help guide our collective experience. As we collected input from students, faculty, staff, and parents/guardians a couple of ideas began to emerge: to honor the fact that this fall will mark the first time we are all physically back on campus full-time, to incorporate lessons learned from the past 18 months but focus on moving forward, and to highlight the importance of doing this work together—no one should feel left behind or marginalized. Incorporating all of these ideas, we came up with Forward Together.